My comments are made in a general term. You seem to treat most in the same fashion, I will give you that. You react the same 99% of the time.
Now on the down side. Don't you feel that maybe you should change your mission? That doesn't seem to work very well.
I've got an idea. Why don't you just reply to a post in a general fashion not a personal fashion. Just agree or disagree in a polite way and see what happens. You can still be the alpha male just reel in the attitude a bit.