Patrick: You aren't going to want to hear this, but your parents are probably right for your first car. I'm 58. I wrecked my first two stick cars because I was fiddling with the gearshift instead of driving the car. I have raised two fine sons. They both did about the same thing. Tell your parents you'll go along with them if they'll get you a 325IS to take to college. Good Luck. Regards, Rick 91 318is