Anyway, I'm not
1) an egotist to do this to get all the supportive responses I've got, so please try to forget this happened and don't reply to this
2) going to post as much as I did, I think (hah! fat chance)
3) worry about following up so much - my email is in every post so I'll expect emails, not me scrolling way down the list to check stuff
4) goign to get so wound up again hopefully.
He with the glacial attitude....