it's not the mustard relay or the lkm. i changed them with ones i know are good and no change. the lights come on and the switch will not turn them off. now get this. the only way to turn them off before was to put the bright switch on, but this time they went out and about 30 seconds later the lights and the brights came on!! this is all with the light switch off, key off, and out of the ignition! any ideas?