I own a 1998 M Roadster. I would like to add the right shock and spring combo for every day driving but I want a set up that will improve handling in the corners. “Yes, I want my cake and to eat it too.” I am looking for springs that will lower the car one inch and that are not too stiff. With that said, I then want to use shocks that will stiffen up under load but ride fairly normal under regular conditions. (Main Point...my wife drives the car too) Any suggestions and first had experience?